Cunnilingus or simply cunny is the main male weapon in bed with a woman. And the main tool to control her orgasms, because not everyone is able to cum from penetrative sex. Stimulation of the clitoris and female labia with tongue, lips, hands brings girls not only to climax, but also to squirt. Many ladies dream of experiencing such pleasure, but either embarrassed to admit it, or men themselves do not show any initiative, thinking that the licking “there” – not on the patsan.
Want to please your wife or take your sexual relationship with a girl to the next level? Be sure to use oral techniques! And here’s how to properly do cunnilingus to your beloved woman, we will tell you in detail in this article. All restrictions in bed aside, burn prejudices and imaginary taboos! Continuous cunny – the best option for sophisticated lovers and even inexperienced virgins!
How cunnilingus is good for relationships, pros
We said that the main plus is the pleasure of the woman. Some ladies manage to cum only with oral caresses, and by depriving her of this, her partner leaves her without orgasms at all. And, as you remember, an unsatisfied woman is evil, spreading around at the speed of sound! So it’s up to you to decide.
Relieves Psychological Limitations
Quality oral caresses help remove many of the inhibitions built up in the ladies head for years, or invested by parental upbringing. Sex “with a log” brings little joy, so you have every chance to liberate his shy girl like this. At least once after cumming, a girl will want to get such a vivid sensation again. Can you imagine how many blocks come off when she spreads her legs and lets you into her innermost places? Cunny is a more intimate process for girls than vaginal intercourse.
Helps you accept your body
Many people are critical about their bodies. And even the first beauty in the village will find a “flaw” in herself. Passionate oral sex gives you more self-confidence, because the man accepts you so much that he is willing to cross a serious line.
Gives you an advantage in the eyes of the lady.
Not all men consider it acceptable to lick a woman’s crotch, although they will never refuse a blowjob in their direction, and sometimes openly demand it from their partner. Against such prudery you will look just a flying lover and in general a valuable specimen, which is in demand among the female sex. Good “licks” are always in demand!
Mutual trust
Both cunny and blowjob bring the partners closer together, and the relationship in sex, and not excluded in the home, get on easier. When you both learn to accept each other’s bodies in a new way, allow a man into the most intimate zone and allow him to master there, there is an increase in mutual trust.
There is always a note of mystery in the oral caresses, because you keep a common “secret” about how it feels good together.
New horizons
In the process of giving oral pleasure can emerge some more features of the body perception or preferences. You have the opportunity to discover for each other new caresses, points of pleasure, expand the boundaries of the permitted, etc. New and unexplored always arouses. A departure from the usual bedtime scenario will only benefit the couple.
What is cunnilingus, general concepts
Cunni is the direct action of the tongue, lips and hands on the genitals of a woman. Every guy can give oral pleasure to his partner in different ways: biting, kissing, sucking, licking the clitoris and labia. Often, more experienced lovers connect as “heavy artillery” rotation of the fingers in the vagina – by this action, excitement to the highest point is achieved much earlier.
Oral caressing can act as a separate type of intimacy, when they replace the vaginal or anal penetration, and as part of the sexual scenario. Most often, cunny serves as a prelude to classical contact, or, conversely, its completion in a case where a woman did not come from penetrative sex.
There are different techniques – what have not invented people to get pleasure! It is a pity that only a few know how to take advantage of all the knowledge and centuries of experience. Out of 10 attempts to make a girl cool cunny only 1 or 2 will succeed, and she really feels satisfaction, and not the image of unearthly bliss, to quickly get rid of troubled lover.
For some reason, there is a perception that cunny is a rough licking and sucking of the clitoris. So the persistent male licks and nibbles on the same spot, not understanding why the girl does not moan and wriggle like a snake, and looks at the pattern on the curtains thoughtfully… Men have forgotten that besides this sensitive area a woman has big and small labia, vagina, foreskin (the area covering the clitoris). They, too, can be involved in caressing. They need to be involved for cunnilingus to be full-fledged! All of the surrounding areas must be thoroughly treated.)
Why do guys refuse to do cunnilingus?
About prejudices we have already written off: not in a guy’s way, it doesn’t suit an alpha-male, only cocksuckers do it, etc. Stupid male excuses abound. It is their stereotypes and beliefs – it is useless and not very necessary to change – it is easier to change one male species for another, so that justice and harmony prevail.
But even among those who don’t mind licking their lady, there are guys who have come across a fragrant “herring”. They don’t get the urge anymore. It turns out, girls, the complaint is no longer to men, but to you and your hygiene! The smell of unwashed genitals is not just unpleasant, but disgusting and revolting. And with the modern development of cosmetology it is a shame to exude prehistoric aromas!
Use different techniques and tricks
- When sucking your clitoris and lips, you can twist your head slightly in different directions – this enhances the sensations.
- Insert your finger into your vagina while licking and move it around, imitating intercourse. You have a chance to find a G-spot.
- The technique with fingers in your vagina and butt at the same time gives even more awesome results.
- Try to move in time with her pelvic movements. Catch the general rhythm, while increasing the frequency of your tongue movements.
- Always keep your tongue relaxed and soft, otherwise it will hurt the girl.
- Write the entire Latin alphabet on her crotch. You can also do it in Russian – it doesn’t matter.
- Rotations around the clitoris change. First left and right, then up and down. Swipe your tongue several times in one direction, then in the other.
And don’t get carried away with one technique for too long. It’s unlikely you’ll have much of an orgasm if a woman will spend half an hour diligently licking the Chinese characters on the head.
Watch the reaction
If a woman likes your tactics, then you’ll notice the following signs:
- She intuitively tries to move closer;
- With her hands she guides your head to her crotch, strokes your hair;
- moistens in the process and without your saliva;
- her breathing becomes rhythmic, loud, raucous;
- the clitoris hardens and increases in size;
- her heartbeat quickens;
- her eyes are closed or she rolls them up;
- the body is relaxed.
These are basic reactions, some of which cannot be faked.
Attempts to lift your head up, body and crotch tension, and vaginal dryness indicate that she is not enjoying your thrusts. You are doing something wrong.
Don’t forget your partner’s body
Try to switch to other erogenous zones on the lady’s body from time to time. She still has a cute tummy, soft buns, sensual breasts and nipples, a seductive hole in the ass! She will be pleased if you squeeze her buttocks or thighs while licking her clitoris. Rub her nipples – they always respond brightly to caresses when the girl is already in a strong state of excitement. Pull her legs up higher and lick her anus a few times – she’s likely to like it.