Female sexual arousal is the great mystery of nature. You never know what you will get in response to this or that action towards her. Men get aroused easily and casually: a slim girl in a miniskirt and heels, a nice plume of perfume, a pretty face with painted lips – that’s all. Healthy physically guys on the way will experience sexual attraction from just a couple of glances in her direction. Representatives of the beautiful half of humanity can not boast of such a reaction, which is why men are constantly looking for magic ways to excite women, preferably quickly and according to instructions.
Dear boys, all girls are different. One to feel sexy excitement, you need a few passionate kisses, a couple of compliments and a bouquet of flowers, the third generally prefers a beautiful view from the window of your apartment in the city center. And others are turned on by a rousing massage and a luxurious accompanying atmosphere. We won’t write you an exact instruction manual for the lathe called “Woman,” no, sorry. We’re just going to give you some basic recommendations on how to get a girl aroused quickly and properly, which you’ll have to sweat from different angles. These are standard and time-tested ways to excite a woman, corresponding to the female anatomy and psychology.
A horny woman, what is she like?
Let’s immediately define what a horny woman looks like, by what parameters can be determined that she turned on and wants sex.
What is she like, a horny girl? Languor in the whole body, a glint in the half-closed eyes, a fuzzy look, half-open mouth, back slightly arched at the approach of a man, hot vagina – typical signs of arousal in a woman. The most obvious signs that a woman wants sex with you: she is wet with excitement, her nipples are swollen, her breathing is intermittent. The world around her ceases to exist. Animal instincts burst outward, requires a final discharge of such a heat of passion.
Differences between female excitement and male excitement
As a rule, a girl needs time to warm up – just looking at even a very handsome man is not enough to experience the sensations described above. Be prepared that from 15 to 30 minutes the average woman requires for foreplay. Of course, there are hypersexual women who are ready to take off their panties after three minutes of comfortable communication, but they are few and not enough for everyone! Therefore, education is mandatory. How does this mysterious process in terms of physiology?
During active caressing, especially during stimulation of the clitoris and nipples, the blood rushes to the genitals. Moisture appears between the thighs, the heart beats faster, body temperature rises a little, breathing becomes intermittent and frequent, as during a jog. The muscles in the lower abdomen tense noticeably – by the way, it’s also quite a noticeable sign of arousal in the female body. In general, the proverbial butterflies, finally, flew in and flapped their wings.
Men’s attraction to the girl arises quickly. The rush of blood to the genitals occurs at the sight of a pretty woman. You don’t have to resort to manual or oral stimulation like the ladies do to get an erection and mucus secretion.
With girls, on the other hand, it’s confusing and complicated. A handsome man in a fancy suit will not cause any ripples, while a man with a “beer” belly and a looming baldness, little like an athlete, will be popular with the girls. Why does this happen? Where are the arousal points in a woman? What conditions are needed to excite a woman? What secret can share the one with the “beer” belly, which almost every other woman gives? Most likely, this unassuming guy knows women’s psychology very well and successfully applies it in practice, thanks to which he climbed to the top of the sexual Olympus.
Truth 1. How to excite a girl? Make an impression of a strong man, a conqueror and dominant
By nature girls want to be weak and to find a defender in a man, for this reason they are turned on by strong dominant males, these brutal badasses. He can protect in a time of danger, he can bring a piece of mammoth to the house, because he knows how to hunt (even if in the office, not in the jungle), he can be the master! Modern feminist chicks riding around in cool cars on par with men are still following their natural instincts, just like their foremothers thousands of years ago.
We’re not talking about a dude on a bike with unwashed dreadlocks and a bottle of beer who has stinky socks all over the place. The real alpha male is a little different. He’s just a tough guy – in all areas. He moves forward, achieves goals, knows how to resolve conflict and stand up for what’s right. He maneuvers through life perfectly, respects himself and those around him, tries to acquire some material values, without complaining about the hard life in the country. He will come and put everything in its place, and he will put the insolent insolent down where he came from. For him, the honor of parents, family, and beloved are not empty words. He came, he saw, he won. Such people can be seen from the crowd at once. They are given, and a lot. And there is also a line. A bald head and a belly are not a hindrance.
Truth 2. Women’s physiology.
Even an experienced seducer can be rejected if he does not take into account the bodily factors of sexual arousal of a woman, namely, the physiology of the beautiful half of mankind. Girls are completely dependent on their menstrual cycle. The schedule of “red days” dictates different degrees of sexual attraction.
The easiest way to excite a woman is during ovulation, which occurs in the middle of the menstrual cycle. During these 3-4 days, nature herself has made sure that she wants to have sex and makes it easier to get in touch with her partner. She experiences a crazy sexual desire and tension. At this point it is easy to get pregnant, so any special effort on the part of an attractive man will require a minimum of effort.
It is most difficult to excite a woman before sex during PMS – premenstrual syndrome, that is, just before the onset of menstruation. The reason for the low level of sexual response – irritability, swollen breasts, abdominal pain and other unpleasant symptoms. Hormonal changes are constantly going on in a woman’s body throughout the month, from one cycle to the next. And you’re not going anywhere, dear men.
Husbands and regular partners, have you ever noticed how different their reactions to the same caresses are on different days? A week ago she was pampered by the caress of your breasts and nipples, but today she is disgruntled by your tenderness. Unfortunately, this is normal.
Of course, bodily factors can only trace a close man who knows these characteristics about his woman. If sexual seduction is only in the plans, this point will not help you.
Truth 3. Interruption in sex.
Another feature of physiology that reinforces a girl’s emotional oddities is past sexual experience as well as the frequency of intimate contact. When a girl takes a long break from sex, she becomes more aroused. Nature demands its own, the body is pining for caresses and male embraces. Other times it’s enough just to create a pleasant environment, a little courting for the lady, choose a priority interesting topic, and the woman is already wet with excitement. Don’t rule out created memories of her past intimate experiences. If the contact causes her painful associations, stagnation is related to this very thing, then it will not be possible to excite the girl quickly.
What will help in such a case: unobtrusive male attention, touching caress, bordering on maddening tenderness and admiration. You can flatter her self-esteem, to pay attention to what a cool makeup she applied and what beautiful clothes she chose for your meeting. After all, this is what women focus on to please men. Carefully broach the subject of her past sexual experiences – perhaps there are some not-so-pleasant moments there that are very traumatic for her.
Truth 4. Excitement with words.
No woman will remain indifferent to correctly said compliments! If you have the gift of eloquence, consider that you have in your arsenal a powerful tool to excite women of all kinds and suits. One trifling phrase helps to make an acquaintance, timely said a classic compliment can continue it, and cleverly twisted tirade about her great combination of beauty, intelligence and charm will pave the beginning of the road to the contents of the panties.
What kind of compliments do girls like? About pretty eyes, cute smiles, adorable hair – that’s just classic. But it’s a compliment “off the hook”))). Come up with something original. Classic suits the first minutes of dating, and subtly seasoned unusual epithet or turnover, it becomes an arrow in the heart of a girl! Want an example? You’re welcome!
- You have eyes so deep you could drown in them, but you probably hear that platitude every day, and I don’t plan on drowning at all for the simple reason that I want to get to know you better and say the coolest compliment of your life.
- Wow, that’s a hair color… A lot of girls are trying to achieve that, and you’re walking around town with that? Where’d you find your handyman? Isn’t that dye? I’m shocked. Come on, tell me about yourself, I want to know everything about such an unusual girl!
A man’s voice is the instrument of power over a woman’s ear! If you properly excite the lady’s auditory receptors, consider that sex is about to happen. And the languid, maximally lowered timbres of the pectoral resonator play a huge role in this. Not for nothing commercials and programs for large audiences sound exactly the bass – they catch, enthrall, envelope, and madly excite. Have you ever seen a snake and a dazed mouse? That’s what a woman looks like in front of a nice man with that voice. When you speak, watch his pitch. Speak your speech softly and clearly, not missing the opportunity to touch your partner, even casually.
How to excite a woman? Start asking personal questions!
A woman will never get excited if she feels uncomfortable in the presence of her partner. The less uncomfortable feeling brings the process of communication, the greater the chance for a man to see the excitement of the girl. At the initial stage, be sure to ask about her personal preferences and hobbies: what she likes for breakfast, how she spends her free time, what are the names of her pets, what style of clothing she prefers, what she appreciates in people, etc.
If the test of the candy and bouquet period you passed, the strongest exciter will talk about intimacy. We will give you a tip on how to excite the girl with words: whisper a short spicy story with sexual overtones in her ear. You love to see sex scenes with your eyes, and women love to talk about them!
Let’s summarize. To excite a girl, you need to
- Behave as a strong, confident man-dominant.
- Create a suitable environment for sex – romantic or hardcore (according to the lady’s preferences).
- To give appropriate compliments, to have an interesting dialogue, to be courteous.
- Keep tactile contact – casually touching, gently stroking.
- Show imagination, sometimes spontaneity.
- To be able to caress the girl in different places.
What not to do
- Be aggressive.
- Talk loudly, argue, prove your point.
- Be too quiet or talk only about yourself.
- Be cold and hungry for affection.
- Think only about your own pleasure, see a woman as just another sexual object (even if she is, show that she is the one and only one).
Dear Don Juans, Casanova’s and exemplary husbands, we wish you success in arousing women, bright mutual orgasms and hellish passions!