The male orgasm is the logical conclusion of sexual intercourse, which is less dependent on psychology, external environment and similar factors. What cannot be said about the beautiful half. In this topic, we will consider the best sex positions for girls and women in which they get not only pleasure, but also a vivid orgasm, as well as make a brief remark about some psychological subtleties that affect its achievement.
The best positions to achieve clitoral and vaginal orgasm
Women can experience not only clitoral orgasm, which occurs with direct stimulation of the clitoris, but also internal – vaginal. The second one gives brighter sensations, lasts longer and, one can say, overcomes the head of its owner. Its receipt depends on the partner’s ability to “feel” the magical G-spot and the psychological state of the lady, that is, her general mood for sex with this man.
Orgasm in the head
Before discussing in what positions to have sex in order to get a female orgasm, it is better to decide whether your partner can get excited with you at all. Is 100% true the phrase that girls cum in the first place psychologically, and then get the internal stimuli for physical pleasure and the logical completion of coitus. What does it take to make her feel an orgasm?
- The partner should be pleasurable by all parameters. If something repels the lady (smell, communication, gestures), then the maximum that will achieve seducer – a plausible imitation.
- If partners are already close, remember if the woman has no secret or old grudges. A woman’s resentment, which you have successfully forgotten (or maybe not even aware of), can ruin any sex. Orgasm is ruled out even in the hands of a skilled macho man!
- Do not try too difficult poses from the Kama Sutra. Unless a woman has the abilities of a ballerina or gymnast, all her thoughts will be about how to keep her balance. What kind of orgasm, don’t you agree?
It’s all about relaxation. Both in body and mind. The main mistake a man makes is to get right to the point. The woman doesn’t have time to catch the right rhythm and tune in. Talk to your partner, help her to switch from domestic problems to the sexual mode. And then it will go… - Do not forget that women do not know how to relax if the thought goes around in his head “What will look like my first size” … We think the thought is clear. She – the most beautiful, the most desirable, in general, the most!
The position of the man on top
One of the best sexual positions for women is – “man on top. This is not always the classic “sandwich” or “missionary,” as you might think. No. There are plenty of variations. The most pleasant sensations and fairy orgasms girls catch are as follows:
- the partner lies on a horizontal surface;
- the man puts her legs on his shoulders and keeps the angle relative to her body at about 60°;
- He rests his hands on a horizontal surface at the level of her breasts, and his legs are bent at the knees and slightly apart;
The advantage is that he can move softly and smoothly, quickly and roughly, stimulate his partner’s clitoris with his groin, change the angle and intensity depending on how she feels. The woman herself can see her partner’s face, which may well be an additional stimulus. With her hands she can caress herself or a man and guide his body. In this position, a woman is able to experience both clitoral and vaginal orgasm.
Face-to-face pose
This can be a classic version, when the girl is on top, and the man sits with his legs stretched out horizontally or tucked under him, but here experiments are allowed. Face-to-face sex pose can be quite unusual for a couple if:
- the man tucks his legs under his buttocks, sitting down as if on his knees;
- The woman spreads her legs wide, sits on top of her partner, arching her body backwards at a 45° angle and resting her hands on the bed;
- The man fixes her buttocks with his hands.
There are a lot of advantages: both partners regulate the amplitude of movements, they change the speed, the member penetrates as deeply as possible, there is constant stimulation of the clitoris, it is possible to caress the breasts, and the arousal increases. Plus the visual perception of each other. By the way, in this position many shortcomings of the female figure are practically imperceptible.
Perpendicular or “on the edge of the bed” position
Another unusual and pleasant pose for sex, leaving a lot of options for experimenters.
- The girl lies on the edge of the bed, her legs bent at the knees and widely spaced, resting on the floor.
- The partner kneels in front of the bed, perpendicular to the lady, with his legs aligned almost completely.
Again there are a lot of advantages: stimulation of the clitoris with the man’s pubis or hands, the breasts are fully accessible for caressing, the amplitude and angle of the inclination can be easily adjusted. You can slightly lift the girl’s body and move it closer to you, bend over yourself, standing up from your knees, and caress her breasts with your tongue. Orgasm in your hands and not only…
